I Won’t Settle…
I won’t settle for anything less than the fairytale romance of my dreams.
Why should I?
Why should a woman need a reason for a man to court her, adore her, and treat her like the Queen that she is? If a man does not see the magnitude and magnificence of my magick and the beauty of my essence, then he is not worthy of my presence.
It takes more than a few kind words and deep conversations.
Action. Integrity. Strength. Benevolence. The qualities of a King are what lay the foundation for a romantic connection and chemistry that flows beyond words.
I have recently begun opening myself up to the ‘dating world’ again. I’ve been single for 14 months, and the last time I went on a date was 4 years ago. I must admit, I was apprehensive at first: what on Earth am I getting myself into?
However, I have found it to be quite the journey of self-reflection and empowerment…
Right off the bat, I was reminded of an old pattern of attachment: obsessively fantasising over the ‘potential’ of the first person I was talking to, reminding me of the old Father wound that forever leaves a small, festering scar deep within my Soul. Desperately seeking love and ignoring the red flags along the way. Funnily enough, the Divine quickly intervened and said person ghosted me after asking me on a date; he suddenly stopped all communication. I found this to be wonderfully empowering, as it reminded me of the standards I set for myself, and gave me the space to reflect on the conversations we had and how we were not truly in alignment. And… This goes without saying… It was his loss!
Being on the dating scene again has also empowered me to FULLY be myself and give zero fucks about it. Allowing me to rebirth into badass Chloe 2.0. I have fearlessly shared that I am a witch, I am psychic, a total nerd for Fantasy, and all of the very unconventional quirks that make me ME. What I have found is that not only does this make me instantly feel more confident, happy, and comfortable in myself, but by placing all my crazy cards on the table upfront, it actually makes me more attractive and alluring to those I am talking to. Authenticity is truly a superpower.
Dating and building connections are also fabulous ways of testing out boundaries. I am loving the boundaries I have built for myself in the past 1+ years. I expect to be paid for. I will not stand for being treated disrespectfully. If something concerns me, I will say it straight. I will tell you what I want and won’t settle for less. If you are drawn to my light, you must be ready to embrace my darkness in all of her divine power.
I won’t settle for anything less than the fairytale romance of my dreams.
Why should I?
Love,
Chloe xo
